Sometimes I honestly wonder whether it is even possible to build something up as a normal family in this country.
I'm not talking about luxury or wealth, but simply about being financially free with three children, a decent job and a house that you're still paying off.
We live consciously. We watch our money and don't over-spend. We go on vacation once a year, invest and put something aside (35-40%), give our children something to do - that's the plan.
But it feels like it gets more difficult every year.
I develop professionally about every 2-4 years, my salary increases.
BUT:
High taxes, levies, inflation, rising energy prices, health insurance co-payments, new fees here, new rules there... At the end of the month, there's hardly anything left of the released budget. And if you then try to save or invest, you are also exempt from taxes, whether on capital gains or property taxes.
I find it frustrating: you work hard, take responsibility, try to act with foresight and yet you feel like you're constantly swimming against the current.
I'm interested:
Do other families feel the same way?
Do you still manage to build up wealth and if so, how?
Or has this simply become unrealistic for the middle class?
I don't want to grumble, but..... do want to grumble:
Until 2-3 years ago, I had no problem paying my taxes. But now it feels very, very bad. Almost like a robbery or a rip-off. (Back tax payment for 2024 €500🤢)
I think we should be much further ahead for the sacrifice and effort we make as a family. I maintain that there is no/hardly any savings potential for us.
I'm looking forward to honest opinions.

