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Be proud of yourself sometimes

As I usually just comment diligently, I thought I'd write a little introduction post at the end of the year.


Briefly about me as a person: I'm 31, female and have been living with my girlfriend and our dog in Hamburg for a few years now.


Like some people here, I come from a rather financially illiterate background and have acquired all my knowledge about finance over the last few years via YouTube and through you here.


We never had much money as a family, my mother overdrafted several accounts really badly without contributing much of her own income to the family, and in the end my father paid everything off. So I also had to learn how to handle money after my studies (where I never had any money either) with my first salaries (~€1,700 net) and that was... not very successful. So I managed, but I didn't manage to save.


But thank God I never got into debt because of my mother. No consumer credit, my account had no overdraft facility, I didn't buy anything in installments. I only financed my studies over the last few semesters with a small education loan (approx. €7,000).


I'm probably one of the people here with one of the lowest incomes, excluding trainees and students. After 7 years in a very well-known concert hall, my income has risen to around €2,250, fluctuating due to shift allowances. And since I can now share the housing costs after the first flatmate didn't pay reliably, the burden of fixed costs has also become quite bearable.


I started saving around 2020, it took me a while to find a strategy that worked for me and I've managed to do this quite well in the meantime thanks to a multi-account system. At the beginning of 2023, I finally dared to venture into the capital market after soaking up knowledge for ages and observing a lot.


But I've now reached a point where I'm really proud of myself. I've gone from living paycheck to paycheck to having a small financial cushion that allows me to buy more expensive things without too many problems or having to think about it, without it blowing a huge hole in my wallet. And it's an incredibly good feeling not to have to worry about the next utility bill or when the fridge or washing machine need replacing.


I currently have a sweet €22,000 in total savings (I don't want to call it a fortune yet. 🤣) of which around €13,500 is already in securities.

That's ten times (10x!) my net income. 🤯

I've now made it to the end of 2025.

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I can now reliably invest €450 and put another €400, sometimes more, sometimes less reliably, into other cash savings pots. And the fact that this is possible with such a low salary is somehow still pretty surreal for me.

So I can put away around 40% of my salary without feeling deprived or having the feeling that I can't afford anything.


I've also opened up the possibility of having €15,000 overdraft and credit line together in my back pocket. Not for consumption, but for calculated, more expensive purchases or possibly a move, which are more expensive than a monthly income, where my savings may not be enough. Saves me 12% installment credit via Paypal, for example, because the interest rates for overdraft and credit lines are significantly lower at 7 and 8%. 😅 I hope I never really have to use it, but it feels good to have it up my sleeve as a plan B.


All in all, I'm extremely proud of myself and think I've found a concept that works well for me.


Happy holidays to you all! 🎄

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Welcome to the community.
Here you can quickly get the impression that your own portfolio is bad or small.
Over 20,000 assets (you can definitely call it that) are absolutely top and are still increasing. Take a look at studies to compare what others are saving or investing. You can be proud of yourself :)
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You are on a very good path! Don't be unsettled by the larger portfolios here, a lot of things are more illusion than reality and you are better positioned than most people 💪🏼
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You can be really proud of what you have achieved so far, respect. I wish you continued stamina. Remember, the stock market is not a sprint but a marathon 😃
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Great story and, above all, welcome to the active community. Happy holidays to you too.
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Hey don't get discouraged
Everyone starts small and everyone has to learn that's part of the process and just because your salary is small now doesn't mean it has to stay small in 5 years keep IT up

I also had to learn everything myself but I got it right
You can achieve a lot if you are willing and disciplined to put it into practice

Better 5 years of abstinence now than 30 years of suffering later
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@Lorddividend Thank God the tv-avh of the city of Hamburg takes care of that for us. 😅 But I've always had problems figuring out what I really want to do professionally anyway. That's why it's been okay so far.
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@Metis I have been able to improve my salary in 5 years from 1.8k to over 4.1k through evening school, as I said, basically anything goes if you want it
Well, the only thing that helps is to try it out if you don't know what you want

But it should also be noted that the biggest salary still doesn't make you "rich" as long as you don't have your expenses under control
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@Lorddividend I'm at least working on building up reserves for possible retraining so that I can possibly finance a few years of reduced hours and evening classes, but without a concrete "I want to do that!", it's just "saving into the blue" at this point. 😅 But I don't want to be at a point where I know what I want to do but have no money for retraining in any form.
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Very nice story of financial rebirth!

The next step now would be to stop thinking about the financial future in terms of overdraft facilities, but rather in terms of opportunity costs: Opportunity costs. 😁
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@Epi The overdraft facility and the credit line are only back-ups. They were not opened for specific reasons. And the line of credit in particular has not yet been used. 😅 I have a lot of (perhaps irrational) fear of getting into a situation where I can no longer pay my bills, so basically half of my savings installment is currently not going into the deposit yet, but into cash holdings so that I hopefully never have to use these loans to their full extent. :D
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@Metis That's exactly what I mean. You're still thinking in terms of overdraft facilities. When you free yourself from irrational fears and start thinking in terms of financial possibilities, then you've reached the next level of financial freedom. 👍
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@Epi That will probably take a few more years. 🤣
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@Metis Where do you put your chash? At the moment there are great offers with overnight money.... or a money market ETF?
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@userc818a6f2df6247c9 mine is with consors, there is 2.2% until April, more for new customers, Postbank also advertises.... or Opelbank?
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@userc818a6f2df6247c9 As I have different savings purposes, I don't have everything in one account, but spread out according to purpose. It has to be like this for my head, otherwise I won't be able to keep the money together. 🙈😅 But the reserves for our dog in particular are easily accessible in a sub-account of my C24 bank account, which currently has a somewhat low interest rate, but oh well. In an emergency, I or my girlfriend can link everyone's card to this account and pay vet bills directly from there if necessary. And that's more important to me than getting interest on it.

For my "real" nest egg, however, I opted for a money market ETF after repeatedly failing to leave more than 2k to 3k in an overnight deposit account. In order to increase my psychological hurdle to go for it, that the money will definitely not be invested in the next 3D printer or something. 🤣🙈
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Wow, great story! You have every right to be proud of yourself, keep up the good work, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!
Happy and relaxing holidays to you too! 💫
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Very nice presentation . Hello first, the sum looks great, and yes you can be proud of it. Many will probably never reach such a value due to consumption. Unfortunately, this is not taught in schools. I'm in favor of this being part of the curriculum anyway. So keep going, the 100 000 are not far away :)
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@Nemesis1990 Haha, yes, only another 12 to 15 years and then I'll have the 100k. 🤣
Thank you!
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@Metis so normal etf calculators calculate 10 years for you... I find your story fascinating! Happy holidays, thanks for sharing.
Even though my portfolio is higher than yours, your lines.... motivate me to read this courage to face life! Great.
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@userc818a6f2df6247c9... I may be a little pessimistic with my calculations. 🤣🙈

Thank you for your positive words, everyone's reactions are very motivating. 🫶🏻
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Stay tuned in any case!👍🫡
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Very good, keep it up! The most valuable thing about it is the attitude and knowledge, that's probably more than 85% of the population and will take you far.
May I ask what you studied to earn a rather low salary compared to the enormous amount of work involved in studying, especially with 7 years of work experience? It's not meant to be disrespectful, I'm just interested.
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@Psychedelic_Sunflower I don't work in the field I studied.
I studied communication design, but many of our year group had problems getting a job in this field afterwards.
And while others preferred to continue writing applications while unemployed, I looked around for career alternatives. And in view of the amount of AI in creative fields, I sometimes think to myself that I may have chosen the wrong thing to study, but thank God I didn't completely fall by the wayside like others in my year. Because my other strength, apart from creativity, lies in craftsmanship and problem solving.
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@Metis The main thing is not to give up, very strong
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Wow. Respect! Welcome to the community and keep up the good work :)
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Don't compare your portfolio with others in absolute terms.
Everyone has a different starting position. In this community, you will find that no one will ridicule you for having a smaller portfolio.
On the contrary, you have made great progress in your life and laid the foundations for a good future. You will celebrate many more successes and I speak for everyone here when I say: we look forward to every one of your successes.
By the way, Charly Munger (RIP) was bankrupt at the age of 30 and at the lowest point of his life.
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@IBilly I think you misunderstood me a bit about the deposit comparison. 😅🙈 I put this amount saved in relation to my net income, and I still find this sum quite surreal, even though I can see these amounts in my accounts and custody accounts. It's just... 🤯
That you can have so much money in a few years even with just over 2k income. 🤯

But thank you for the rest of your very positive words. That's very motivating. 🫶🏻
Great! Keep up the good work :-)
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Nice thing! Keep up the good work 👏🏼
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You're way ahead with your depot . 💩 to the "others", unfortunately there are also many dazzlers aka. Tiktok, Insta & Co. on the road. We continue undeterred 😉 Greetings
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It's commendable when people from a financially disadvantaged background turn a positive corner, but often the negative spiral continues. Discipline and time are your positive companions.
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@Depot_7777 Thank you, yes, I'm constantly trying to be better than my parents and I'm also trying to influence my girlfriend in a positive way in this context.
Just to finally break out of this cycle of "spend what comes in" completely. 💪🏻
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You can and should be proud of yourself. Don't compare yourself with others (and if you do, then please also look at the majority who have significantly less) - even if you have a 2 million deposit, there will always be some who have "more". You're doing well, be happy about your success and just keep doing what you're doing. Happy holidays. 🎄
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Thanks for the insight and congratulations on everything you have achieved!
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Great story! ☺️ Good luck on your further journey in the world of finance😎
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Fascinating life story, which reminds me in part of my own experiences, except for the fact that I haven't yet made it to > EUR 20000 in "assets" - ok, I've only been in the share business since November, although I didn't have a prepared "IPO" in mind, but rather started quite spontaneously... At 50, you don't have that much time and the discussions about pension reform etc. have given me a "I have to do even more than I'm already doing with Riester and the like" effect.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you (and me too, of course, hihi) that our plans will work out and that we won't be filthy rich now, but we'll be a bit more carefree :-)
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Congratulations!

There are many people with three times your net worth who don't manage to save or invest.

You've definitely taken the right path in terms of spending. In terms of income, I think it's more difficult if you don't want to throw your own principles and ideas overboard.

I think your path is very good. You're still at the beginning, but with your savings rate you can be sure of one thing: you'll never have any real problems with money. That's an achievement that lets you go through life much more relaxed than your mom, for example.

Chapeau!
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You should be really proud of yourself 😀
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