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@Madhatter5566 I think it's kind of selfish, isn't it nice to have created some security for your children and grandchildren?
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@BisInDieLetzteFussnote Haha! Doing something to make yourself feel good isn't selfish now? 😅
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@Epi I don't understand. If you feel good about yourself when you do something good for others, that's selfless and definitely not selfish
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@BisInDieLetzteFussnote Well, if you do something else because it makes you feel good or BECAUSE it makes you feel good, then it's classic selfishness wrapped up in moralism. 🤷
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@Madhatter5566 I see it differently, I am doing something good BECAUSE I want to give my children a good start and a financial cushion. Knowing that my children are secure also makes me feel "good"
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@BisInDieLetzteFussnote Sure, if the good feeling is just a by-product, it may be true that doing good is not selfish.
But beware! Selfishness lurks everywhere. After all, it is YOUR children you are doing good for. Your own MiniMe's are also just versions of yourself. What you do to them, you are basically doing to your extended self. 😉
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@Madhatter5566 I agree with you, everything should be settled before I pass away. I was more concerned with the principle of not using everything for myself...
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