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The value of comments. Or "How do I behave when there are opposing opinions?"


I've just had a bit of a sour note here, so I ask for your understanding and apologies for having to let loose a few words now.🤯


Is this now fashion that one deletes disagreeable comments on depots? I mean, who knows me knows that I like to give many and especially hopefully often useful tips. I try honestly.😐


Sometimes it succeeds, sometimes not.

That "we" are not always on the same wavelength, that happens. That we don't see eye to eye on a strategy...that happens. 🤫

But please please do not ask publicly for opinion on your portfolio or investment decision and then deleted at "Not in the own world view suitable answers."😒


By the way, a greeting goes to the person who may feel addressed. I see that you have visited my profile, my smiley is also still under your post ... you can not delete namely: 🆘


In this sense:


Either you get along with justified and justified criticism or you block the one. ✋


However, deleting someone's comment for no reason, which involves work and time, is neither adult nor decent. Especially not when I ask you again why and whether you deleted a comment.😖


Just have some respect, especially if you asked for advice yourself. Everyone here, at least me, make my comments in my spare time, besides family and hobbies....


Have fun still in your bubble. And in this COMMUNITY.


For everyone else, of course I'm happy to help with my point of view. However, to impose my opinion on someone is far from me. Every participating person on this platform should be emotionally strong enough to question his own decisions or to be able to deal with criticism accordingly. Who takes these basics (tolerance, acceptance and fairness) into account, I and some others here are also ready to give help, tips and advice.📈


Have a great evening! 🍀

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@ccf also create a good base in the community should also be rewarded. Just my opinion
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Who was that? GET THE TORCHES AND PITCHFORKS AND LET HIM/HER DRIVE THROUGH THE CITY!!!1111
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@Fledermausklaus That is not the point. It is about the principle that someone thinks about a depot that is presented. If help is requested, the opinion should be met with acceptance. I have noticed this twice now. Today, or just again. Why should I then still invest work in the analysis or opinion to depots, if in the end only the own self-image counts...
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Respect for other people and opinions is from my point of view a basic behavior in any relationship, friendship and communication. Treat others as you would like to be treated. .... and because I'm a little older I can think of two wisdoms: - As you call into the forest so it resounds out - You always meet twice in life Nice evening ;-)
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@Barsten Thank you for your comment. You're right, I'll leave it at that.
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GQ also constantly deletes my comments just because I tap out or a notification appears... think they don't like me either 😵‍💫
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@SharkAce happens to me often 🙈 the last message I had to rewrite it five times because it miraculously disappeared again and again 🥲😂
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@Jenmadness schlimm wirds if the text was really long and everything is gone because of the notification that you have only 20% battery 🥲 Any short copy you can forget zb also 😂
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@SharkAce I think you know that's not what I mean. 🙃 It's about comments that were really there and also responded to, which are suddenly no longer there. And if you then ask, this demand also disappears... in addition, you get a visit from the corresponding profile where the comments were made. So that would already be more than a coincidence. 😐 And yes... on other days I would vll. not interested; but today you just have bad luck and may do my crying on the subject times. 😉
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@InvestmentPapa now stop making me curious 😭 @SharkAce @Jenmadness I know, I always write everything longer in the notes before 🥴🙊
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@Lorena Sorry... you won't get a name. 😞 However, I noticed this three weeks ago. I didn't write anything about it then. Simply thought... then just not. But now it happens twice today, with one and the same person. And there it is enough for me. Therefore this toddler tantrum. Which is actually not a tantrum, but simply a statement and request for more understanding.
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@InvestmentPapa I know what you mean just want to spread my daily nonsense :D But I'm with you. Whether own or other comments should simply stand. Unless there is a good reason (very attacking / you do not want to share it etc).
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@SharkAce All good. Have thought the same almost. I'm probably a bit sensitive right now... 😅 Have a nice evening!
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@InvestmentPapa likewise! Turn on console and shit on people fromm Internetz dings
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@InvestmentPapa I also have something nice @SharkAce where we are on the subject of "nonsense" *cough* 😂😂 I have my "ex" blocked on all social media channels, when I started here in January, I took the same name as my then Instagram Acc. Now guess who has visited me desöfteren (God thank Getquin for the blocking function) 😂😂😂 so now I've posted enough nonsense 🙈 No can understand you completely, that would also make me now yes a bit foxy @Lorena apropos, that reminds me of our "buddy" 😂
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@Jenmadness ufff oh no! But the take with the same name was also a mistake I made. I have several people about my Spotify playlist, which I have here on GQ in the bio, found on Insta, because I took the same name. First renamed 😂 but I hope the block function has worked for you? Our friend has deleted by the way 🌝😂
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We accuse him/her/it of witchcraft and then off on the funeral pyre🥳 PS: I like stick bread
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@getquin Waterboarding is better for nature. .... will be deleted for sure ;-)
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Since I have not seen the contribution and also do not know who it is, I let times a valuation outside. From a purely objective point of view, you're right in any case. But now comes my big BUT: The tone makes the music (and the corresponding reaction to it). At least today you seem to be on the road with a somewhat loaded tongue. I already noticed under my last post. No offense, I think your work here is great, but if you write with a certain snootiness (between the lines), then it does not go down well with the recipient. Even if it's objectively true, the recipient blocks against it on principle. I don't think it's intentional on your part, and maybe you're just in a bad mood because of something. I do not know, you do not have to say. Nevertheless, time to pay attention to the fact that at the other end, nevertheless, a person sits and that misunderstand (wants) if you do not communicate at eye level. Regardless of whether you (probably) have much more experience in the field or not.
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@RisingAktie Sorry, but I like to write it to you again. I have neither started any attack on you, nor meant anything between the lines. And with the present text I do not mean you at all. I also spent a wonderful day with the family in Karl's Strawberry Land (or whatever those things are called)... so bad moods are also non-existent. 🙃😉 Ok, I formulate it again more precisely: I apologize if you misunderstood my comment under your post. It was and is in no way meant that way. So I'm sorry if my statement was misleading. For the rest, thank you for your opinion. However, I think that we both feel quite fundamentally just past each other... But that does not matter, for that we are, as you rightly say, people. In this sense: Have a nice evening and rest of the weekend!
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@InvestmentPapa don't worry, I didn't feel addressed😂 My post wasn't about portfolio feedback and I didn't delete any comments either. Then everything is good. Just wanted to give you some input on it.
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@RisingAktie Sender + Receiver + Message. The beginning of all "social" courses.🙈👍
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On the mouth eyy
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@m4xi Please don't! 😭
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Come on, then just write something about my depot. I know myself that it is also strong hara-kiri. According to logic, I would delete the post then practically only if you would praise it.😂
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@gravetheart Ha! Nice try! 😅🤪
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Amen! 🙏🏼 Find also currently very bad that every negative opinion about Bitcoin automatically reaps an SOS. Is the opinion wrong yes but everyone has an opinion and if you think nothing of cryptos is not an SOS but an opinion 🤔
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@Larsen "Thank you" for your comment. Since I believe that even after a renewed attempt to explain to you why I wrote exactly these lines, you arrived at the same "interesting" statement and I also do not owe you (especially not on the Internet) any accountability (basically your statement) - a quote for you: "If freedom means anything at all, then it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear" Georg Orwell Have a nice Sunday!
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@Larsen It really seems to bother you a lot. I mean, otherwise you would not have taken the trouble again to leave a comment and then edit this again. Too bad actually, I found your quote quite interesting. Oh well... you do not interpret a little too much in any texts in a FINANCIAL community? Just one thing as a hint. We will surely run into each other from time to time in the comments. That cannot be blocked unfortunately... oh wait, in how far again was your contribution so far in the community except in this senseless venture to accuse me necessarily "arrogance" and "moral exaltation"? A motto among thieves: "One recognizes his equal". Have a wonderful Sunday, taking your suggestion seriously, I'm going to the playground with my son. There is more peace.
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