Depends on whether the feeling ATM is conveyed.
Some ladies see their money as theirs and the man's too... not sexy
Personally, I like a 3 account model. Joint income/debt and a separate one where everyone gets the same amount deposited. But it's not everyone's cup of tea... but it's practical if you have unequal incomes.
But since this is not an issue at the beginning of a relationship, it probably starts with not being seen as ATM, i.e. every now and then she should also pay a bill... how often depends in my opinion strongly on the salary gap and her attitude. Not every lady likes it when the bill is picked up.
And to be honest, when I'm standing at the checkout with my shopping and she has a drink. That's added to the purchase... it's silly to pay for it separately.
Some ladies see their money as theirs and the man's too... not sexy
Personally, I like a 3 account model. Joint income/debt and a separate one where everyone gets the same amount deposited. But it's not everyone's cup of tea... but it's practical if you have unequal incomes.
But since this is not an issue at the beginning of a relationship, it probably starts with not being seen as ATM, i.e. every now and then she should also pay a bill... how often depends in my opinion strongly on the salary gap and her attitude. Not every lady likes it when the bill is picked up.
And to be honest, when I'm standing at the checkout with my shopping and she has a drink. That's added to the purchase... it's silly to pay for it separately.
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@Eggplant XD Yes, exactly. So I don't think it's right for a woman to see all her husband's money as hers. That's too greedy. And probably not nice for the man either if it's all give and no take, the relationship won't last long. It should be give and take. And above all, grow together and fight for a goal. And very good that you would add a drink XD
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