I look at what mindset the woman has. A woman who screams for equal rights at every turn is allowed to pay half. That doesn't apply in marriage, where I see myself as the provider and want to be able to do everything on my own.
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@Aktienkoenig that's also very good. When I'm married, I also want to have a reliable husband. If he doesn't even earn as much as I do and can't support me and the child, I won't get pregnant at all and I won't actually get married at all😅
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@Esperanza I can understand that very well. Money is a tiresome topic, I didn't always earn well and therefore also felt the corresponding pressure and wanted to achieve more. Find someone with this mindset :-)
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•@Aktienkoenig Yes, it's also important to me that the man has a goal and a good mindset. I want to fight for a goal together because you can achieve it better as a couple than individually. Yes, I also find a man without a goal and who just wants to chill not attractive either
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@Esperanza see it the same way. The woman has to go along with it and have the same mindset, otherwise it won't work. For example, I don't like it when women spend a lot of money on unnecessary stuff. Some women escalate completely. It's not that easy to find the right counterpart :-D
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•@Aktienkoenig exactly hahaha if the husband earns a lot and the wife only spends, a family will never be wealthy. I completely agree with you. Together we can achieve something, I'm curious
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I have to be honest, when I was married, we never had your money as my money. I earned more than she did, but we had one account and everything was transparent. Money never mattered because it was our joint money.
I don't know if I would do that again. I always paid because I was supposed to be the finance minister, even from her side.
I wouldn't do that in a new relationship without family planning etc., of course.
I find it very clichéd when we talk about women who spend a lot.
After I decided that I didn't want to wait for retirement age, I came to the conclusion that I needed to save more. I realized that I know a lot of men who spend their money on technology and other unnecessary things. Consumption in large quantities is really a disease.
I don't know if I would do that again. I always paid because I was supposed to be the finance minister, even from her side.
I wouldn't do that in a new relationship without family planning etc., of course.
I find it very clichéd when we talk about women who spend a lot.
After I decided that I didn't want to wait for retirement age, I came to the conclusion that I needed to save more. I realized that I know a lot of men who spend their money on technology and other unnecessary things. Consumption in large quantities is really a disease.
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•@tiberius_44 I see it the same way, in a marriage I'm 100% in, in a relationship I'm not. Unfortunately, I have to say that in my experience women spend more. Technology, for example
you don't always buy, and there is a residual value. It's a different story with make-up, fashion, etc. I don't want to generalize, it's just my impression.
you don't always buy, and there is a residual value. It's a different story with make-up, fashion, etc. I don't want to generalize, it's just my impression.
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