@fund_commander_450 the thesis that Germans are stingy. You can see that in the comments. If women earn less because of family, the man pays more, if there is a gender pay gap, the costs are divided up on a percentage basis. When you go out to eat, you take turns paying. That's totally OK
@Esperanza Well, I'm reassured that you don't see it that way. Squirrels aren't really like that either. They are so forgetful that they forget many of the things they have stashed away and are quite generous themselves. Of course, I don't know to what extent this applies to all the Sandys out there. The gender pay gap should perhaps be looked at more rationally. In my circle of acquaintances, for example, it's not like in all the statistics. Of course, this may also be because I hardly have any acquaintances who earn 7 figures. Personally, I also find it totally romantic when she pays for the food and I don't have to spend my money. But the constant negative stereotypes against Germans really get on my nerves. And so do the people who spread them.